THE ONLY HOME OF THE FULL FLEET ILYA COLLECTION - FREE UK SHIPPING & INTERNATIONAL OVER £350

0

Your Cart is Empty

The Meaning Behind A Collar

The Meaning Behind A Collar

Daisy wearing the O-ring Curved Collar in Black

 

The collar is one of the first objects to come to mind when we think about leather in its simplest functional form. Yet whether a collar is fastened on ones own neck or seen adorned by another, it always evokes a deep response, but what is the cultural meaning behind the collar – and why does it get our hearts racing without fail? 

Fleet Ilya has been working at the intersection of fashion, fetish and unlocking the potential of beautifully crafted objects for over a decade. Since the beginning, the collar has been a key piece in the process – as it easily transcends worlds without losing its radical potential. 

In fashion, the collar is an enduring symbol of pushing boundaries. It’s been part of the subcultural dress code since the early days of the punk movement. Collars served as a finishing touch to outfits already ridden with safety pins and chains – at times, in line with the community’s resourceful spirit, those were the actual sturdy dog collars from pet shops. Collars were a fitting accessory for self-proclaimed underdogs – and a nod to sexual subversiveness as a part of broader nonconformity. 

The collar has a deep significance in the BDSM and kink community as the ultimate symbol of power exchange. Worn around the neck, it signifies the submissive role or exploration of submissive desires. It is a foundation for collaring ceremonies (and since recently, self-collaring) which celebrate relationship dynamics and identities, a crucial asset for play, and a fun way to toy with these ideas maybe for a few hours at a party. Getting a collar for yourself or accepting a collar as a gift from someone else can be a sincere gesture of romantic connection – or simply an act of self-love and being open to new types of experiences. 

Daisy wearing the Cut Out Posture Collar in Silver

 

When the buckle closes around your neck – that sweet tight pull and release – the collar stops being an object and becomes an invitation to explore a different mindset or role, play with the energy it brings you and see where it takes you. Whether combined with clothes or on its own, wearing a collar can be intriguing, arousing, moving, comforting or even thrilling. 

A perfect collar combines the visual aspect of form and function, with texture, sturdiness, and the quality of materials from which it is crafted. Wearing a collar is an embodied experience rooted in psychology and sensation. Our necks are sensitive and vulnerable, a precious vessel for nerves and arteries, a place that holds erotic tension. A collar is a reminder of human fragility, connection, commitment, and the courage to show up as your authentic self.

EXPLORE FLEET ILYA COLLARS